Coming Out

What did you think when you read that title? Seriously, what is it that crossed your mind? We all have an idea. And it’s okay.

I posted something on Facebook the other day that was going on in my life. Sometimes I just post random thoughts. I’m kind of random in case you haven’t noticed.

The post: ‘Sometimes you have to be okay with people not knowing.’

I went about my business. I’m super busy – writing, doing readings, working out, teaching classes. Those are my main gigs. We won’t discuss side projects.  

After that posting, which I forgot about and went about my next task, I received a message on one of my TikTok reels. A woman had said she was lesbian and asked if I was into it. Seriously, I have had men send these messages for years, so I responded that I was not.

A day or so later, I saw that a male family member who is married to a man had liked the post. Still thinking nothing about it, I racked it up to our latest connection when he visited.

At this point, I’m still clueless. Did I mention I’m busy?

It finally hit me when I saw a familiar face in the Cassadaga Spiritualist Camp bookstore. I walked in and he looked at me from a distance as if he knew something few knew about me.

Talk about a psychic hit! LOL. I chuckled inside. Now in my office, I looked back at the events that I described above. It took me long enough to figure it out.

Backstory: Long ago I was invited to a friend’s condominium on the beach. She brought her two children. One night we all went to dinner. People stared at us like we were a couple. I noted it and she said who cares what people think.

That’s the exact psychic hit that I got from that familiar face. You know the stare.

Honestly, it’s not the first-time people have incorrectly labeled me.

To be clear, I am a strong, intelligent, independent women who does not need a man or anyone to survive. I’m perfectly fine with being with me.

I am not on social media to meet the man of my dreams. I am on social media to raise the vibration of this planet, so that we can all ascend into a higher evolution of consciousness.

A post to follow up days later: ‘Assumptions are made, and most assumptions are wrong.’ ~Albert Einstein.

Get me started on assumptions – two sources, always two sources (newspaper writer), investigate, make a logical, intelligent decision. If all else fails, ask.

Thoughts on the post? Wink, wink!

Blessings of Peace and Love