Pay Attention!

Are you aware of situations going on around you? Do you just nod and agree or do to move along? ­­­­­­In some cases, it might be in everyone’s best interest to do so.         
         
I wear many hats and I’m sure a lot of you do as well. It’s hard to keep up sometimes. Most of us wanna help others but when we do, some people just take advantage of our energy. These people are vampires, energy vampires.

Backstory: My daughter has mentioned to me on numerous occasions that I don’t have any friends. I say: ‘I do, not just a lot. I don’t want to be around with certain energies.’

Do you?

I’m pretty easygoing until I’m not. We all have our line, a line not crossed. I let certain things go but when it comes to my space, I want the energy a certain way. I get to have it that way. It’s my space and energy. And then people try to make their way in. It’s why I can seem guarded at times.

When I was younger, I was little more free-flowing with my energy.

Backstory: I took a mediumship class on Sunday’s nearly 20 years ago. Students took turns standing by the wall to see auras. When it was my turn, I stood and let it flow. One student said something about me giving away my energy.

Back then I didn’t quite get what she meant. Perhaps, I was a little wet behind the ears. Years later, I realized other students and professionals were tapping into my energy. They knew exactly what they were doing. I realized it later and allowed it. I only wanted to help.  

These days I’m a little more selective as to where energies flow. I have friends and family, clients and students who get most of my energy, and at times colleagues get some. I do save some energy for self, something I should be doing far more often. How ‘bout you?

Putting up appropriate boundaries is a must. I put up the boundaries. I get so busy that I don’t notice them being chipped away at – until I do.

Pay attention to who you allow to come into your vibration. Some people are just not supposed to be there. You know who they are. Stop allowing. You can still be nice but not be taken advantage of.

Pay Attention!

Blessing of Peace and Love